THE PITY POTTY……. (about the “constantly sick”)
THE HOLIDAY / Every day DRAMATIST….
THE SNIVELING, WHINY, SELF SEEKER….
THAT CONSTANT, CHRONICALLY SICKO…..
OK, OK, once in a very great while being sick is acceptable! (once in a rare while)
I have been working in the health field (the real health field) NOT THE MEDICAL LYING FIELD, for over 50 years now! (that should count for some insight, understanding and experience)
Most everyone who gets sick, meaning a significant sickness, not just a cough ,cold, or flu, has been their own “engineer of that sickness!”
After all, each individual is “in charge of every decision” they made about what goes into (diet, intake) their physical body, and that same person is in charge of what their body, mind, and spirit are “exposed too!”
Now understand, “we all need reminders, outside input, varied perspectives, and “well-meaning direction” form those around us!”
However, too many, see others advice as “CON–fronting,” when it could be they are “CARE-fronting!”
Why is it that “caring advice” is met with such disdain, and arrogance, Arrogance, means, contempt, prior to investigation and as said, it is “so prevalent?”
It is like, others cannot have “well intent???”
After all, everyone today it seems, “due to peoples EGO’S,” is a “legend” of “knowing and doing everything perfectly” in their own minds!
If we as individuals, were to slow down and think (rarely if ever done), we would possibly see we have all lost perspective of “HOW WE ACTUALLY do things!”
(and in honesty most us have to cringe)
Yes, if we are “often getting or being sick,” then we obviously need to look “inwardly” at what we are lacking in our own “self-maintenance,…” because it is “obviously lacking!”
However, the problem today is that the majority has selected or chosen friends, that are “suck-ups,” yes, men(or women), the “acceptance needy,” you know, and not just “brown- noser’s, but full-blown ass-kisser’s!” 🧐🙃 (those who are so needy and have to have you around)
You see the difference between a brown noser, and an ass-kisser, is simple and obvious, it’s “depth perception!”😊 (ass kissers are “in deeper” it’ almost the same though)
You see, most people “crave that acceptance, way more” than their own self-respect and being a real “truth teller!” – (telling the real truth scares many)
Having charge of one’s own health takes effort, in that “you must first learn the actual working knowledge, and….. then you must put out effort” to build, keep or even maintain your health! Health does not just appear or just happen!
So, when that “sick person,” starts their “ACT” of “attention seeking” by complaining, whining, or any other action, REALIZE, that they brought it on themselves!
Of course, offer them some good, sound direction,…. some “outright truth!”
After all, that is “truth without brutality!”
That’s mercy, compassion, grace with using WISDOM! That is REAL LOVE!
Know, that if you are truly going to be a truth teller, your friends at first will be shocked, they will be extremely mad, “they will reprimand you vigorously!”
WHY, because the vast majority doesn’t have the spine to do what you did, and the mad are internally, VERY JEALOUS!”
Don’t worry, if you keep telling the truth, “the IMPORTANT individuals will respect you,” and you’ll like yourself much more,…. guaranteed!
NOTE: This is REALITY, and observation of over 50 years, and literally tens of thousands of clients! Know, this is why so many “stay sick,” their so-called ill health serves them well!”
I had to learn to “my great sadness,” that there are those “who do not, will not, nor even consider great consistent health! Health does not “feed their insatiable sick need” for attention!
It is also my observation, that these types drove me the more intensely, to look deeper, to think harder, to understand more, to find healing for everything!
This point being,… I did not see how being sick, could serve anyone in a positive (perception) way! So, to these sick (mentally), I owe a debt of thanks too, after all we can learn from everyone!
©copyright Bert Seelman 2019
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